In my search for new friends, real ones who get me and genuinely care i found someone. Some with the exact same birthday as me, now while i was off planning birthdays and situating my money to put them through training to go to school and get a job, they're soul purpose was to bring me down. Let me back up for you, How do you know when someone is really your friend? When people say they're friends what does that entail, is there a contract signed or a commitment made..No, just consensual chatter about nonsensical things. After what I've gone through i strongly suggest if your going to be close friends with someone, make nice with all of their friends. Here's why.
I met a girl lets call her Karen, now i thought she was a sweet kid, cute as button fun to be around all that. We spend days together while our mutual friend was down in Florida, Karen and I had so many plans together we went to a a party together and decided that would be the destination of our birthday bash. She and Io never had disagreements or girly fights, but there was this guy that she had slept with a few times. Now me and this guy Mark, became close I know what your thinking and not that kind of close that like unwritten code he's off limits. Mark and I were close as friends, he was cool guy we would talk til 5 and 6a.m. That's when it all began, they green eyes came out and she began to tell him not to be so close with me and began to antagonise the situation every single day.
Being a normal guy he wasn't trying to hear that non sense which is why He and I were so close, I never brought the drama because I'm not for it either, even though i totally ignored this about her i never really looked at her differently. I never said what a bitch a liar and a scandalous little cunt. Now I know, what led to me acknowledgement of her being totally insane was her claiming she was raped by this very man that she was so head over heels for. We were on the phone and I told Karen this is all her fault she shouldn't have slept with him, he isn't the only culprit here. I said "You and him had consensual sex" In burst her with loud yelling "Did he tell you that did he tell you that..Nicole Did he tell you that" I cut in with ---Yeah he.. "Omg i will go to the precinct right now!" That was it the moment the biggest lie she could have ever told came out. When i told her to stop it right there she changed the subject. It was at the point i realized something was seriously wrong with her. If you asked Mark he would probably say i was playing a game where i knew what everyone had in there hand, and i bet all the money on the table. Really i was just totally and completely honest so i never had to worry.
After all that i forgave this psycho girl, and decided OK maybe it was just a little spell, So i went out with Karen the night before Labor day. We went to pick up her cousins and for the most part it was pretty OK except no one besides me and her were putting in for alcohol. This bothered me but not enough to spoil the night, Now let me inform you I'm not your everyday drunk. If i get drunk I'm not a sloppy drunk I'm just loose, and calm. Now at this party there were about 25-30 bikers, and they began to pick off who they wanted to ride on the back of they're bikes, Little to my surprise one of them picked Karen. I asked Karen if she was just gonna leave me there drunk, she said I'll be right back. Totally unaware of who got on a bike and who didn't. So now I'm standing there angry that the only person at the party i knew left me drunk, alone. In her crazy world i was fine because on of her cousins was there. Where was this cousin when i decided to get home on my own in the middle of Brownsville drunk? well she was right there she watched me walked off and didn't say a thing. So tell me KAREN how was i safe with her?
This was all i needed i went home i got a ride, She keeps calling me but I'm so pissed off i don't even wanna hear her logic. In her world her logic is basically "I never do wrong" So a guy i met at the party calls me and says how come you weren't at the party i saw your friends there but i didn't see you *screeeecchhhhhh* HOLD UP! The same friend who was so worried? is now at a new party?? see she doesn't know i know all this but all these things I've told you is enough to just say OK she's no good for me. I'm outtie so anyone who thinks i was too harsh on her should def comment below and tell me what you think.
How well do you know your friends?
I think it's time you all reassessed some of the things you know about then and think about what else they could do to disrupt the normal balance of your relationship.
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